In his article The future of foreskins", Daniel S. Brenner puts forward the argument that circumcision helped bind him to his male offspring. He uses the concurrent trends for fewer circumcisions and more births by c-section, to illustrate what he sees as a growing disconnection between parents and children.
I think he is confusing ritual of circumcision and the physical pain experienced during childbirth. By treating two intrinsically different human experiences as though they were identical he seeks to confuse the issue. Although circumcision involves both parent and child, only the child experiences physical discomfort. This procedure is not, nor has it ever been necessary for the survival of male children.
On the other hand, natural childbirth was until recently an unavoidable and painful experience which both mother and child had to undergo. Surely Brenner must be aware that as society becomes increasingly agnostic. Religious rituals such as circumcision will become less common. However the rate of natural childbirth is declining for very different reasons. I have no medical qualifications or experience, but I believe that mothers are now far less inclined to want to experience the pain in natural childbirth involved. An additional factor might be the caution of medical staff, who might during a difficult births opt for c-section as a safer alternative over natural delivery.
Mr Brenner describes going ahead with the procedure himself, despite admitting that he was aware of the possible undesirable consequences for his twin sons. He describes removing performing the "cut" and experiencing "an unparalleled sense of connection to and responsibility for life. The birth was pure wonder. The circumcision was primal and mysterious, connecting me to flesh and blood in a violent and careful moment of father-love."
At this point I think he hits the nail on the head so to speak. He is performing this ritual for the spiritual or emotional benefit it provides to himself. This ritual has no place in modern society, its time to leave such practices behind and live in a more conscious manner. I would suggest that he try spending time with and getting to know his sons as they grow up like the majority of modern fathers. Chopping bits off them is not a prerequisite for a close or fullfilling relationship.
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